Yep another week has passed & there is much to update from a few days ago. So grab a coffee,water or drink of prefernce & pull up a seat.
Ok family update:
Jess has surprised us all by becomng very confdent in the pool in the last week. She happily gets in now & kicks her way from one end of the pool to the other. Makes me laugh to watch her being so carefree & happy out there. Poor Brian gets his ears yapped off daily as soon as she gets home LOL. Through the windows every single afternoon I can hear her chatting away happily to him about whatever he is doing, what she did at school etc he loves it as his grandkids live interstate.
Bek is well Bek...growing up way too fast for my liking. She really is the young lady these days. Though they had a Maths test today & she got 88%. The highest mark in the class. WTG Bek!
Shrimpy is well..Shrimpy. Not much changes with him, he happily plods along each & every day greeting it with a chocolate milk in hand, grin on his face LOL..I kid you not!
Jimmy....OMG you better get an alcoholic beverage for this one! Yesterday I sat him down to reveal a few home truths that he really needed to hear. I told him that I am extremely disappointed in him. He stopped taking his medications over 6 weeks ago without telling us. I had guessed it had something to do with his medications the way he was behaving but I would never have guessed he had stopped taking it all together!!! He was in tears when I had told him I was at the end of my rope. Jut will not speak to Jimmy currently as he is so angry,disappointed & hurt that Jimmy has been the way he is. That hurts me terribly. I still feel like the buffer in this house. Jimmy has become extremely lazy. He will not do anything through the day to the point he watches Dr Phil! I mean come on! He is a 16 year old boy & he happily watches that dribble every bloody day (I dont mean to offend anyone who does watch Dr Phil) other then that he plays the darn playstation for hours on end! He half heartedly looks for work. He was handed a job on a plater & he even managed to get the sack from that! I am tired of the fighting this causes & not to mention just how bad it is for his self esteem to be doing absolutely nothing all day! He left school a year ago & he has had a job for a grand total of 21 days! OMG!! So after much talking, I was cool headed & didnt rant or rave...I have told him it is now crunch time for him....Find a job & treat everyone in this house with respect then he is out. Tough love lives here these days.
Jut & I...well he is working his butt off atm as he is the only one in his department for the next 3 weeks as Gibbo is on holidays...gone to Fiji I think. So he is sleeping tonight. Me...well health issues abound there. I have had women health issues for te last 7 weeks...so yesterday I finally had my fill of it & booked in to see the doctor. I got an emergency appointment today & was examined. Let me just say a speculum is the most uncomfortable thing man ever made! My doctor has booked me in or an ultrasound. From what she could see it seems my uterus is irritated & the slightest movement sets it off again. FABULOUS................. NOT!!! I am taking medication to dry things up over the next 3 weeks....then I will go for an internal ultrasound to determine just what is wrong with it. From there we will determine the next steps to take..it could be as bad as having to have a hysterectomy...at age 34!!! Ok I am breathing again..that part still rocks me to the core!
Other then that not much has been going on...since I got home this afternoon I have sacked out on the lounge with the laptop watching movies & fiddling online, trying not to think about it all..very unsuccessfully I might add.
Noo scrapping has been done either..just no real motivation the last couple of days...wonder why LMAO!
Ok Iam off to attempt & I use that word loosely,to learn Photoshop to actually digital scrap.
Til later Gators.
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3 comments:
What sad lives we live cybering away to all hours lol.
hope you feel better soon and the docs can help you and find out whats happening.
Love and Hugs
I happen to like Dr Phil...LOL. Hope Jimmy has got the message now and you feel better soon.
Jules
xx
Lovin the new look to your blog Terri - very fresh!
It's great that you sat there calmly with Jimmy and just laid it out for him .... I really hope it all improves for you guys.
take care
Julie xx
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